Have you ever found yourself stuck with a problem that just won’t go away, no matter how hard you try to solve it?
Why is that? Why don’t you just solve the problem?
Sometimes it's a small problem, and sometimes it seems like a big problem. Or maybe it seems like the other person doesn’t want to solve it.
There is only ONE reason why a problem does not get solved.
The problem does not get solved because you are not actually trying to solve the problem.
What you are really trying to do is make someone else wrong. Get that?
If a problem is not solved, it's because you are trying to make someone else wrong. You don’t actually try to solve the problem, you try to make yourself right.
Now, that mechanism of making yourself right and others wrong prevents you from being able to win and lose with the same level of enthusiasm.
Life will become difficult, and you will start to struggle.
So, what’s the handling?
Find something you can love about that other person or about that situation. Find something you can admire about it.
As weird as it sounds, try it, and you will see that any problem you have, whatever it is, will disappear.
If you stop trying to make someone wrong, if you simply accept the isness of the situation, and then find something nice about it, something right about it, something correct about it, something you can admire about it, you will see that the problem will not only solve itself, but it will cease to exist.
But, of course, you need to try it. So try it!
And if you have any questions, you can write them down in the comments and ask me.
One more thing, if you find this blog and the tips I am giving you helpful, please share them. You will help me reach more people, and by the way, you will help those people too.
That’s important because the only value a person has is in how many people they help.
Do you want to help? If you do, my friend, please share.
Thank you, and enjoy the video below.
Meir Ezra
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